Wow! Just looking back at some of the things I have put on here. Yeah a little embarrassing, but what is done is done. To make a long story short James and I have been divorced since August 10, 2011. Well that is when the final divorce was filed. I haven't seen James since the final divorce hearing on July 26, 2011. We have spoken and we have got all of our asstets and debts all taken care of now, and life seems to be coming back as normal and not a crazy, emotional, stressful life I have had in the past 2 years. Yes James and I had been seperated since March 15, 2010. July 2010 is when he told me about his affair and the ball got to really rolling after that.
In Feb 2011, I moved to Minnesota, I didn't have a job, I was running really low on funds, since James had taken all the money away from me, and I could not touch it. Since I had been a full-time student at Barton and KSU, I didn't bring in any money, so all I had was money I had stashed away which wasn't much. I was finally to the point to where I had had enough of this bullshit. Excuse my language, but how I was being treated was bullshit. Especially since I was being treated badly from someone I had spent almost 9 years of my fucking life to support and love someone and he calls me a cunt, tells me he wishes I was dead, and oh my all time fav I never meant anything to him. Fuck that shit I was done. So I took a huge risk to move to Minnesota where again, I had no money, Ihad a place to live, but no way to pay for it. That was stressful, but such a wonderful feeling of relief to leave fucking Kansas, Ft. Riley, and everyone, but a few people behind.
For once in my life I had stood up for myself and did not care what anyone thought of me. It was time to stop caring about others and focus on just me. Which is difficult if anyone knows me they know I do not do a good job at taking care of myself in any way. I have always made sure others had things before I. So on Feb 2, 2011 I started to cahnge my life completely.
On Feb 11, 2011 I went on my first date with Steve. We had meet on craigslist and where just friends for a couple of months before we actually meet. We would text see how one another is doing just liek friends do there was no sexual comments or anyhting like that. It had felt like I had known him a lot longer than I had. Great first date until I about had an emotional breakdown talking about James. That was embarrassing, but he was so sweet and understanding. We then went on our second date Feb 13, 2011 and we have been unseperateable since. I have a lot more about Steve, but for now I have to get back to work HEHE!!
